 V1 E4 2025
Hello!
Welcome to "Breaking the Good Girl Code: How Women Can Stop Self-Sabotaging and Start Leading."
Breaking the Good Girl Code isn’t just another newsletter — it’s a revolution.
If you’re tired of playing small, over-apologizing, and putting everyone else’s needs ahead of your own, this is for you.
We’re diving deep into the hidden patterns of self-sabotage that hold women back, unraveling the myths that keep us stuck, and charting a bold new path toward authentic leadership.
It’s time to rewrite the rules — on your own terms.
Ready to step into your power? Let’s go!
🚀 You Are the CEO of Your Own Life
I remember the day it hit me.
That jolt of realization.
I was stuck.
Stuck in a job that drained my spirit. Stuck in a pattern of saying 'yes' to everyone but myself. Stuck waiting for a sign, a push, a lifeline.
Then it dawned on me: Why wait?
I already had the power to CHANGE everything.
That's the day I became the CEO of my life.
You see, leadership isn't just for the boardroom.
It's for the living room, the kitchen, your own mind.
STRATEGY #1: OWN YOUR DECISIONS
You decide the direction.
Your choices define your path.
Stop waiting for permission to live your life with intention.
STRATEGY #2: SAY NO WITH CONFIDENCE
The most powerful word? NO.
It's a boundary. It's self-respect.
Saying 'no' to what's unaligned frees up space for what truly matters.
STRATEGY #3: DESIGN YOUR VISION
Picture it. Feel it. Live it.
Craft a vision board. Write it down. Make it real.
Your life should be a masterpiece of your own design.
So, where do YOU need to step up as the leader of your life?
Reflect. Plan. Act.
The CHANGE starts now.
— Coach Monet 🌿
🧠 Coaching Corner:
THE POWER OF SELF-LEADERSHIP
Let's talk SELF-LEADERSHIP.
Why?
Because it's YOUR secret weapon.
Self-leadership is about taking the wheel. 
It’s about making decisions that resonate with your truth.
Your values.
Your AUTHENTIC self.
No more waiting for permission.
No more following someone else's road map.
It's time to create your own path.
Because YOU are the leader of your life.
Here's a technique I love: VISIONING.
Picture your ideal life.
In vivid color.
Where are you?
Who are you with?
What are you doing?
And most importantly, WHO are you becoming?
This isn’t daydreaming.
It’s STRATEGIC.
It’s a blueprint for the future you’re building.
Now, let’s take action.
I want you to try this:
Each morning, take FIVE minutes.
Visualize your day as its leader.
How will you show up?
What decisive actions will you take?
Write them down.
This small practice?
It builds the habit of leadership.
Leadership that EMPOWERS.
Leadership that INSPIRES.
Leadership that TRANSFORMS.
So, are you ready to lead?
Because the world is ready for you.
💪 Breaking Barriers:
Transform Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery
SELF-SABOTAGE.
We’ve all been there.
It’s that little voice whispering, “You’re not ready,” or “What if you fail?”
Why do we do this?
It’s fear.
Fear of success.
Fear of failure.
Fear of change.
These fears fuel behaviors like procrastination, perfectionism, and self-doubt.
But here’s the TRUTH: these behaviors are nothing more than barriers.
Barriers we can BREAK!
So, HOW do we transform these patterns?
Start small.
Identify ONE behavior holding you back.
Confront it.
Challenge it.
Replace “I can’t” with “What can I do today?”
Turn “I’m not good enough” into “I’m learning and growing.”
Rinse. Repeat.
YOUR journey is waiting.
Break. Your. Barriers.
Step into your MASTERY.
Let’s go!
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⚡ Quick Wins: Make Every Day Your Masterpiece
EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.
An opportunity to paint the canvas of YOUR LIFE.
Are you ready to PICK UP THE BRUSH?
Here's the checklist to start sculpting your masterpiece:
MORNING POWER-UP!
Open your eyes with INTENTION.
Set a DAILY GOAL.
Visualize SUCCESS before you even step out of bed.
MINDFUL BREAKS!
Pause.
Breathe.
Check in with your thoughts.
Are they serving YOU?
EVENING REFLECTION!
Review your day with GRATITUDE.
Celebrate the WINS.
Learn from the slip-ups.
Craft tomorrow's game plan TONIGHT.
As we journey through life, remember the words of John Quincy Adams:
"If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader."
Self-reflection time:
WHAT DID YOU CREATE TODAY?
Think about it.
Ponder it.
Let it sink in.
And get ready to CREATE AGAIN tomorrow.
Are you ready to pick up the brush again? 🎨
🌟 Spotlight: Leader in Action
Meet Sophia.
A fearless, trailblazing woman who transformed her life — and the lives of those around her — by embracing leadership in a way that was fiercely her own. 
A few years ago, Sophia found herself standing at a crossroads.
Stuck in a job that drained her and surrounded by people who didn't see her potential. The weight of expectation was heavy.
She felt like she was drowning in it.
Then, one day, she decided: Enough.
No more playing small.
No more hiding her light.
Sophia faced a mountain of challenges, starting with the negative voices that echoed in her mind. Those pesky whispers of self-doubt and fear — familiar foes to many of us.
But she decided to confront them head-on.
Together, we began her journey of self-discovery, leaning into the discomfort and unearthing her true passion.
Sophia didn't just overcome.
She thrived.
Today, she runs her own design company. Her story a testament to the power of self-leadership and resilience.
But why stop with Sophia's story?
I want to hear YOUR stories.
Do you know someone breaking barriers and leading with courage?
Or maybe it's YOU.
Share your tale or nominate a phenomenal woman you admire. Let's amplify these voices and shine a light on the incredible leadership happening in our own backyards.
Together, let's rewrite the narrative.
Let's lead. 🌟
🎯 Challenge Accepted: A Week to Lead
Are you ready to shake things up?
I’m talking about a 7-day challenge designed to light a fire under your leadership potential.
Each day, a powerful task.
Each task, a step closer to mastering self-leadership.
Let’s dive in.
DAY 1: VISION QUEST 
Take 15 minutes today to visualize your ideal life.
Write it down.
See the magic unfold when you give your dreams the spotlight they deserve.
Leadership begins with vision.
DAY 2: DECISION DOMINANCE
Make one decision today you’ve been putting off.
Big or small.
Doesn’t matter.
Feel the rush of empowerment that comes with decisive action.
DAY 3: THE GRATITUDE GRAB 
Write down three things you’re grateful for.
Right now.
Gratitude shifts your mindset, shifting you toward a more powerful YOU.
DAY 4: COURAGEOUS CONVERSATION
Have that difficult conversation you’ve been avoiding.
Be bold. Be brave.
Your voice, your power.
Every conversation is a chance to lead.
DAY 5: SEEK THE FEEDBACK
Ask for feedback from someone you trust.
A mentor, a friend, maybe even a co-worker.
Feedback is your growth fuel.
DAY 6: CONNECT & COLLABORATE 
Reach out to someone new or reconnect with an old friend.
Building relationships strengthens your leadership network.
DAY 7: REFLECT & RECHARGE
Look back at what you’ve accomplished this week.
Celebrate your wins.
Every small step counts in the leadership journey.
Now, pause. Recharge.
Share your experiences.
Post on social media.
Tag @SummitwaysHR and let's inspire each other to greatness.
Lead the way, one day at a time.
YOU’VE GOT THIS!
📚 Resource Roundup: Empowerment Reads
Ladies, it's time to grab your favorite blanket, a hot cup of whatever fuels your soul, and dive into a world of empowerment!
These books will ignite your passion for personal leadership and growth.
Let's get started!
1. "Daring Greatly" by Brené Brown 
This isn't just a book.
It's a revolution.
Brown teaches us that vulnerability is not a weakness — it's your greatest strength.
Why should you read it?
Because embracing vulnerability is the gateway to living wholeheartedly.
And leading authentically.
2. "Lean In" by Sheryl Sandberg 
This one's a game-changer.
Sandberg explores what it means to "lean in" to your career and life.
And she doesn't hold back.
It's a call to arms for every woman who wants to overcome barriers.
And lead with confidence.
3. "You Are a Badass" by Jen Sincero 
This is your wake-up call!
Sincero delivers a kick to your comfort zone with humor and grit.
It's about mastering the mindset that fuels success.
And unlocking the life you truly want.
Pick one.
Or all three.
Start leading your life with unapologetic power!
🔄 Circle Back: Reflect and Reset
Let's hit the REFRESH button, ladies!
We've journeyed through the world of self-leadership, shattered self-sabotage, and embraced our roles as CEOs of our own lives.
You’re now equipped with tools and insights to take charge like NEVER before.
This edition was all about realizing that YOU, yes YOU, are the greatest leader of your own journey.
Now, take a deep breath.
Reflect.
What hit home for you today?
Was it the idea of turning self-sabotage into self-mastery?
Or perhaps the daily habit checklist that pushes you one step closer to being your best self?
Whatever it was, let it marinate.
Sit with it.
And then... take ACTION.
I want to hear from you!
What resonated?
What sparked a fire?
What questions still linger?
Your thoughts fuel the NEXT edition.
So, spill the tea, share your insights, or just say hello.
Your voice matters.
Let it be heard.
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